In  general,  the  difference  between  men  and  women  in  terms  of  sex  / gender  is  biologically  termed  natural  differences  which  are  absolutely  non-exchangeable.  Women  have  a  uterus,  breasts,  ovaries,  menstruation,  get pregnant   and   give   birth.   Meanwhile,   men   have   a   penis   and   sperm   for fertilization.  This  difference  is  natural  throughout  the  ages  and  applies  to  all humans  everywhere,  regardless  of  the  rich,  poor,  officials  or  people,  urban  or rural.  The  differences  between  men  and  women  that  result  from  social  andsymbolic  interpretations  or social  construction, or  non-natural  differences,  can change  from  time  to  time  or  place.This  research  uses  descriptive  qualitative research  methods.  Research  aimed  at  describing  and  analyzing  phenomena, events,  social  activities,  attitudes,  beliefs,  perceptions,  and  thoughts  of  people individually  or  in  groups  The. traditions  about  gender  in  this  discussion  are arranged  based  on  these  classifications  and  /  or  thematically,  namely  the problem of creating women. , regarding the duties / responsibilities of husband and wife, regarding the priorities of men, regarding women's leadership, as well as those related to the partnership of men and women.